Share five things you’re good at.
1. Being Stubborn
Most people might call this “determined” or “persistent,” but let’s be honest—I’m stubborn. Once I decide to pursue something, I’m all in. This single-mindedness is my superpower in the art world.
When I face rejection (and let’s face it, rejection is common in the arts), my stubborn streak refuses to let me quit. Didn’t get into that art show? I’ll apply again—or better yet, I’ll start my own. Sales are slow? I’ll try new strategies until I find what works.
Being stubborn means I don’t stop when things get tough, and that’s exactly the kind of grit needed to make it as a thriving artist.
2. Being Unrealistic
I’ve been called a dreamer more times than I can count. And honestly? Guilty as charged. I have wild, pie-in-the-sky ideas that often seem impossible.
But being unrealistic is crucial in the creative process. It’s how we imagine things that don’t exist yet—whether it’s an ambitious art project, an unconventional design, or a new way to connect with an audience. My ability to think big helps me create art that stands out, take risks that others wouldn’t dare, and believe in the possibility of success even when it seems far off.
So yes, I’m unrealistic, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. Realists don’t change the world—dreamers do.
3. Being Empathetic
Art is fundamentally about connection. It’s about capturing a feeling, telling a story, or creating something that resonates with others. My empathy allows me to tap into those universal emotions that make art powerful.
When I draw or write, I think about how others might feel when they experience my work. This ability to step into someone else’s shoes gives my art a depth and relatability that connects with people on a personal level.
Empathy also fuels my passion for helping others—whether it’s raising awareness about endangered species through my work or supporting other struggling artists. By creating art that cares, I’m building a community, not just a career.
4. Being Anxious
Ah, anxiety. The restless energy that keeps me awake at night. While it might sound like a curse, I’ve learned to channel my anxiety into productivity and creativity.
My anxious mind is always racing, always analyzing. This means I’m constantly brainstorming, problem-solving, and refining my ideas. Anxiety pushes me to prepare thoroughly, which has saved me from countless mistakes. It also keeps me humble and open to growth—I’m always striving to do better, learn more, and adapt.
On the flip side, anxiety gives me an acute awareness of the world around me. I notice details others might miss, which often makes its way into my art, giving it a richness and complexity I’m proud of.
5. Being Depressed
Depression has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember. It’s not something I’d wish on anyone, but it has shaped me in ways I can’t ignore.
For one, it’s given me a deeper understanding of the human experience. My art often explores themes of struggle, resilience, and hope—not because I want to dwell on darkness, but because I know how powerful it can be to see those feelings reflected back at you.
Depression has also taught me patience and the importance of self-care. As an artist, I know the value of stepping back, taking breaks, and finding joy in small things. This balance is essential for sustaining a long-term creative practice.
And perhaps most importantly, depression has given me a profound appreciation for beauty. When you’ve been in the depths, you learn to cherish the light even more. That perspective drives my work and connects me to others who have felt the same.
Turning Flaws into Fuel
These five traits—stubbornness, unrealistic thinking, empathy, anxiety, and depression—are often seen as challenges. But in my life, they’re assets. They shape my art, my perspective, and my resilience.
As I continue on my journey to becoming a thriving artist, I embrace these parts of myself. They’re not just quirks—they’re tools. And with them, I know I’ll create work that matters, build a career that lasts, and connect with others in meaningful ways.
If you’ve ever felt that your own “flaws” hold you back, I encourage you to look again. They might just be your greatest strengths in disguise.
Kids Book Illustrator Andy C Marshall 